Outfit Post #2 (31 Days, 31 Ways)

So, week two of the challenge was far more successful in choosing clothes — I spent very little time and felt fabulous every day — but far less successful in the taking of photos. For a few reasons:

  • It’s now dark when I leave for work in the morning, and dark when I leave the office for the train home. I’m a terrible wimp at getting out of bed when there isn’t even a hint of light glimmering through the window, so He’s not had even thirty seconds of spare time to snap my photo in the morning.
  • Weekends this month have been swamped with renovations and travel — which means that I’m either reusing outfits I created during the week to make myself presentable for family and friends, or wearing my oldest, ill-fitting jeans and ratty t-shirts to scrub out the fireplace and chimney/pull things out of crawl spaces.

I’m not displeased with this state of affairs in terms of my life, but it does make the “progress reporting” a little less than terrific. So, here goes — four outfits new for this week.


I stayed late at the office on Tuesday, putting some extra hours in on a big project, since time would be tight later in the week. Comfort for productivity was paramount, so I opted for cozy pieces:

  • Gap khaki Chinos with a brown leather belt
  • Audrey Hepburn-inspired ballet tee
  • My favorite cardigan (similar)
  • Veyla fingerless gloves
  • Trainers


Wednesday involved a full day with lots of meetings, dinner with a friend who had quite a lot of news to share, a many-hours long music rehearsal, and then a drive that meant sleep happened some time after midnight. Comfort and solid footwear were a must again.


Thursday was my first public performance in 15 years, singing with a group of wonderful performers at a cabaret in uptown Manhattan. It was also pouring down rain when I woke up, necessitating a quick shift from the cocktail-dress-plus-suit-jacket I had planned to wear.

I really love the way the wrap top fit snugly over the flowing tunic; I pushed up the black sleeves and then rolled/pinned the purple cuffs to elbow length.


After a week of long hours, Friday was reserved for date night: a walk across the Brooklyn Bridge, light Mexican fare for dinner, and the viewing of a new musical at the Brookyln Historical Society with my favorite guy. (Forgive the terrible expression on my face — the construction dust was flying!)

  • Gap 1969 jeans
  • Rose-colored tank
  • Gray shawl-collar sweater
  • Sanne Kalkman’s Percy shawl in lilac cashmere, tied as a scarf inside the sweater
  • Trainers (I *really* need to find my fall walking shoes, wherever they’re hiding in storage during renovation!)

If you’re interested in this project, head on over to Greater Than Rubies and see who else is linking up, and how they’re interpreting the challenge.

Climbing the fire escape in Francis

Outfit Post #1 (31 Days, 31 Ways)

The remix challenge has been both interesting and challenging, though not in the expected ways. I had a few twists thrown in due to real life:

  • Our home is under renovation and October became “rip apart the upstairs” month.
  • In the hurry to prepare, I rather haphazardly put half of my clothes (including most of my shoes and nearly all of my accessories) in temporary storage.
  • All of the mirrors in the house have either been removed or are sized such that they reflect just 1/3 of my frame.

These circumstances have required that I piece together outfits by color, pattern, and feel — and then trust that they’ll be okay, since I don’t know what they look like until after each morning’s photo shoot — reviewed while aboard the train bound for my office. If something didn’t work, it was way too late to change it!

This turned out to be quite freeing. Surprisingly so. For which I’m grateful and a little bit humbled — I’m actually spending a lot *less* time thinking about clothes, choosing outfits, and trying things on than I ever did before.

The outfits.

1. Wednesday

On Wednesday, I had an ordinary day at work planned, followed by a full evening at home. I wore a pair of Gap chinos (gray), with a tie-neck blouse in navy and teal and a navy schoolboy blazer — finished off with black patent flats and a black belt. I was focused on defining the waist of a flowing top.

2. Thursday

Thursday was an extra-long work day followed by a long walk home from the train station while He was at work. I wore a pair of black/gray pinstriped trousers with a pink and white gingham checked button down, my gray Nada te Turbe handknit shawl and a denim jacket as the completer piece. I wore trainers for the walk and switched to my favorite soft leather loafers (gray, from Børn) in the office. I was focused on mixing patterns.

3. Friday

Friday is casual in my office, and was the start of a weekend getaway that includes 2 hours on a train and 2 in a car. Focusing on comfort, I wanted to try dressing down a piece I usually treat as formal, so wore my favorite jeans (Gap, 1969 boot cut) with a lacy top extender under a drape-necked shell that is usually reserved for my favorite suit. I topped it with my most comfortable sweater — a somewhat clingy cardigan with a hood and great drape in oatmeal and gold. Trainers for the trip, ankle boots in the office.

4. Saturday

For a season-opening gala at a beloved regional theater, I wore long, sleek, charcoal-colored trousers, a slightly sheer white blouse dotted with black and gray hearts over a rose-colored camisole, and a knee-length belted black vest with ankle boots and sparkly earrings.

5. Sunday

Sunday’s outfit has no photo. I was at home working on the house all day, so tried out the “make a cuff” prompt by rolling a pair of straight leg, slim cut jeans worn with a boat neck white tee and my favorite cardigan. I hated every second of having the cuffed pants on my body – even after unrolling them. After sticking it out for three hours, I spent the rest of the day in flannel pajamas!

6. Monday

I fared better on Monday. With a full day of work followed by an evening of cabaret dinner theater on the schedule, I opted for a pair of black CK skinnies with black riding boots, a charcoal-and-cream striped tee, a teal scarf, and an evergreen-colored wool blazer that has been heavily tailored to fit me well. I wore the blazer open without the scarf at work, and felt great all day.

7. Tuesday

Tuesday was a long day of work, and comfort was paramount. I tried a few Pinterest combinations that I’ve seen but never tried — a long-sleeved top (black) under a short-sleeved, knee-length dress (red) and ankle boots (black). I added a denim jacket since it was quite chilly, but will definitely return to this outfit – with or without the topper.


  • Tight pant cuffs aren’t for me.
  • I’ll try combining a regular pattern (pinstripes) with a slightly less regular one (think paisley or floral rather than gingham) next time.
  • Structured tops combined with slim bottoms are beautiful.
  • Dressing up or down a single piece is much easier than I thought.

Here’s to round two!

31 Days, 31 Ways

It’s been an odd year for me with clothing. Well. Not that odd; don’t women usually chop off their hair or do something else that feels dramatic to change their appearance after a big break-up? Whatever; I’ve been a bit of a clothes horse since last summer.

It’s unusual for me to focus so much energy on what I wear, but for a number of reasons, that’s what I’ve been doing.

Last winter I tried a number of subscription services; StitchFix, Elizabeth&Clarke, Birchbox, ShoeMint, Wantable. In the spring I started working with a personal stylist from Keaton Row. As a result of paying attention I’ve started seeing “fashionable” people and items and tips everywhere – billboards, shop windows, ads for street style websites, fashion week coverage – it’s entered my consciousness.

Since last August, I’ve read a ton and tried on a great many options outside of my comfort zone. I learned a lot – mainly that patterns are wonderful, bright shoes make me incredibly happy, sheer fabrics are always inappropriate for my life (unless paneled in a formal gown), and fashion professionals love to push the envelope on defining “office appropriate” – often in quite inappropriate ways. (Side note: I would love to write a tiny handbook on clothes for very young people embarking on office jobs. “Rule one: if your supervisor or a colleague says to you, “you must be chilly with the A/C on,” that’s code for “You aren’t covering enough skin; please put on a sweater/jacket/longer skirt/pants/etc so I don’t have to be more explicit and mortify us both.” (And its fine if you think [the person saying this] is a fuddyduddy , but his/her opinion matters more to your livelihood than Teen Vogue’s.))

But I digress. I had a great time, but I’m tired of buying stuff; I have “enough” clothes and shoes and handbags and jewelry. And since services and stylists are in the commission business, I needed a “non-shop” inspiration source.

Enter Caitlin of Greater Than Rubies. Caitlin is a tall woman. She works for a human services nonprofit that requires a professional image. She’s married and settled into the pattern of an adult life (and doesn’t seem obsessed with clothes to the exclusion of all else). She’s stylish, and works hard to ensure that “her outsides match her insides”, as my Grandma Jane once said. She dresses well – but her life philosophy is at odds with a disposable economy. So, a few years ago, she “broke up with shopping” and started a blog (and a side business) focused on “remixing” all of the things she already owns into new and unexpected outfits.

Ta-Da! This is exactly the kind of role model and advice I’m looking for.

I signed up for the GTR email list, and have had a great time trying “new things with old stuff” for the last month. I’m not embarking on Caitlin’s own challenge of not buying anything new for a year – since I don’t have the time or energy for rigidity – but I am taking on her October “remix” challenge.

The concept is basic: for 31 days, match up things in your wardrobe that you haven’t worn together before. Drop your “favorite” outfits and find some new ones. (There are all sorts of “rules” you can apply to make it harder or more interesting, but they’re not for me.)

So. For the next month I’ll be trying new things. Cataloging different outfits, noting what works and what doesn’t, what’s comfortable and what isn’t.

Wish me luck!